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The Guru Syndrome: How Indians Outsource Emotional Work

Why Indians Need a Guru / Religious Leader / Spiritual Guide / Cult Figure Indian ancestors figured out one thing for sure about themselves, we lack emotional honesty. And in the interest of future generations, they decided this weakness needed to be taken care of by someone Indians can’t shut…

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Cancerians: The Emotionally Intelligent Achievers

(Born Between June 21 to July 22) Cancerians are perhaps one of the most fascinating zodiac signs. Often misunderstood as overly emotional or sensitive, they’re actually among the most complex and balanced personalities, masters at navigating both personal and professional worlds. In relationships, Cancerians can be a dream to be…

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Aquarians: The Quiet Center of the Room

(Born between January 20 and February 18) Aquarians are some of the most intriguing people you’ll meet. At first glance, they may seem like they’re quietly standing in a corner distant, reserved, maybe even a little aloof. But make no mistake, they’re very much in the center of the room….

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Seeing the Driver Within: Self-Awareness as a Way of Life

This is an essay about something we hear daily, in every motivational video, every honest podcast, even in conversations with friends, partners, or children. It’s self-awareness. Everyone talks about it, but few truly engage with it. It’s often mistaken for a punishment , considered a burden, a summit to conquer,…

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The Roles We Play-The People We Forget

She stood in the kitchen, not because she loved to cook, but because being a wife meant she had to. He fixed the pipe, not because he was good at it, but because being a man meant he had to.  Beneath their roles, they were just tired people longing to…

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Perfectionism: Is it enabling you or draining you?

(A sneak peek into the mind of a perfectionist, who is unable to find their self esteem without validation from others) I’m tired of this mind of mine, so tender, it bruises with every word. The one that gets hurt at the slightest comment. The one obsessed with validation. My…

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Write Your Own Myth

Storytelling Isn’t Just for Children Storytelling is an underrated art, often dismissed as mere entertainment or something reserved for teaching kids values. But have you ever noticed how we adults still use storytelling to guide our lives? Every Conversation Is a Story The gossip we indulge in, the content we…

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The Phoenix in Me

Long-term trauma leaves you with no idea who you are. You keep coping, imitating, trying to become someone, maybe your ideal self, because you don’t know your original self, if something like that even exists. An authentic “you” doesn’t exist yet. And then, when you heal a little and build…

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Echoes of a Love Long Gone

Love and human emotions are complex, capable of offering a wide range of experiences even when the circumstances seem similar. The process of loving someone, feeling disconnected from them, and eventually losing interest follows a pattern many have lived through, yet it feels unique every time. Loving someone who was…

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Know Thyself, Love Thyself

While I often believe that childhood surroundings play a decisive role in shaping who we become, I also see many who turn out completely different from what their environment might suggest. A strictly traditional family may raise a free-spirited son, an atheist household could nurture a deeply religious individual, and…

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Ant- The Teacher

Once upon a time there was a boy named ray. Ray was a very inquisitive boy who always wanted to learn something new. Ray’s father was a small time mechanic in the local garage and he did not earn so much that he could keep up with Ray’s learning needs….

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The Romance of Distance

Time and again, both the wise and the foolish have spoken about yearning, about loving from afar. Philosophers, theologians, ardent devotees, and poets have all mused on how, sometimes, cherishing someone from a distance and waiting for them can feel more blissful than actually being with them. Neuroscience explains this…

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Mom & Me: A Story of Life, Death, and Beyond

The Fear Of Death I have three types of experiences with death. I had imagined it many times. Daydreaming about my mom’s death or the deaths of people I loved came naturally to me. Probably because I always watched her being unwell while growing up, I felt we could lose…

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Children & Parents- Two Sides Of A Coin

One of the most empowering things children do is follow their parents to the T. For those parents who tell that their kids do not to listen to them, they should know that, even before they realize it, their children are copying their behavior. What is problematic in them is…

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Prisoners Of The Mind: The Human Struggle

The trouble with life is that it is made up of numerous moments. When times are good, you enjoy being in the moment, but when things aren’t going your way, every moment feels like a punishment. Life seems like a prison, and you become a slave to it. You keep…

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Masters Of The Stage Or Masters Of Fate?

I am a novice when it comes to acting. Not only did I hold various assumptions about the talent required, thinking it was no big deal, but I also believed acting was for those who couldn’t do anything else. Recently, I had an epiphany, a newfound respect for actors, when…

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How Does It Feel Falling In Love With Someone

(A millennial’s version) The age-old question. Maybe when you are a teenager. Maybe when you’ve been hurt so many times that your heart has stopped feeling. Maybe when you’ve been with someone for so long that love has faded into mere habit. Whatever the reason, this question haunts millions, and…

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Who Are You Without their Approval?

Why Being Unable to Show Up Is a ‘You’ Issue, Not a ‘Them’ Issue? Most of the time, when we get ready to meet someone, we think about how they will perceive us. Will they approve of the way we look? Will we fit in? This concern makes sense in…

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A Missing Village : A New Mother’s Reality

The Vanishing Village Today, I came across a rather popular quote about how new mothers once had a village, but now that village is nonexistent. Now, new moms not only have to prepare for the arrival of their child but also brace themselves for a long and exhausting battle. We…

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